What I have learned about life.

I have completed 25 years on this earth. For many years I didn't care to know about life and i was content , but within  last few years i have started finding meaning of life.Life is like Roller Coaster drive with lots of ups and downs. Following are some points that i have figured out about life  through reading books , listening to people and through my personal experience.

• When some one sees the same people every day, they wind up becoming part in that persons life. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. 
  This is a ugly truth, ever body do this, we want to change the people whom we love. We want them to behave according to our need. 
• True friends will never question why you disappeared off the face of the earth. They will be there for you unconditionally.
  True friends will always help you first, and then will ask you about your trouble.I am glad to have such friends.
• Life is not easy. But having the right support group with you during your journey goes  a long, long way.
  If you have good friends and family whatever happen, you will always enjoy the life.
• People aren't either wicked or noble. they're  like chefs salad, with good things and bad things chopped and mixed together in a vinaigrette  of confusion and conflict.No one is perfect every person has some good and bad and when you love a person you have to accept both.
• Not every relationship is meant to last forever.
  People will come and go from your life.It is on you how fast you recover and move on.
• Know what you want. Clarity is power.Most people don't know what they want , they live life without goal just to survive. 
• Remember  that the moment you think you are master you loose your mastery.
  If you think you have learnt everything and you are master then you lying to yourself .
• Every time you do what scares you, you take back the power that you gave to the thing that scared you. And so you become more powerful.
  Pick up a thing that fears you , do it right now and after doing it you will feel more powerful.
• The more you give the more you receive 
• This is good sign, having a broken heart. it means we have tired for some thing.
  If you always live in your comfort zone you will be happy forever and you will never know what more you can do .Get out of your comfort zone broke your heart and find new limits for yourself.
• Rest. recover. it will make you stronger.
  You can not win every time.sometime you lose your everything including you confidence, at that time take a break with your coffee and figure out your mistake.
• A heart never heals, but it does got stronger.
• Happiness is trip,not destination.
  You will not find any place or thing which will make you happy forever.
• The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself.
  Sleep good , laugh good and eat good worry less about your future problems.work on present to make you future better. 
• The darkest hour of the night came just before the dawn.
  Don't give up on toughest time a little more effort at toughest time will lead you to victory. 
• Life is under no obligation to give us what we except.

Saddest Poem Ever

Read Quote of Chaitanya Nettem's answer to Poetry: What are the saddest poems ever? on Quora

The Dream.

I have  done it. I have completed what i was dreaming from few months and i am most happiest person on earth.It was like i had won a cricket match on the last ball. The nearly impossible think is now done.  Heavy burden  is taken of from my head and now i  am free.Now i can tell people i am no longer a loser, I will tell everybody how i have done this. Everybody will be proud of me , they will talk about me.Now I will concentrate on some other things that are also essential for me .This thing had got  stuck in my mind and i was not able to move on and now i have done it.
Suddenly my eyes were opened  i watched the clock , it was 2 am, I was dreaming. I have completed my dream in a dream. Now all good felling are turned into bad feeling. The good dream is turned into nightmare because  i  has the worst felling that i haven't completed my dream. I have forgotten about that  dream  but this dream has reminded me about it  once again. I slept  after that.
I woke up in morning with a bad feeling. I didn't know why i was feeling bad there are lots of things which i haven't  completed, there are lots of dream which aren't completed , i have failed many times.Why  i was feeling so bad about that dream. It was because i haven't tried anything to complete my dream and didn't try anything to make it happen.I was too afraid of  failure and  i didn't give it a chance.It was regret , I know i had missed the opportunity and i can't do any thing now. If i would had tried it there were chances of success, but now there is no chance.
We don't do things just because we think we will fail , but latter in life we will not feel bad for failure,we will bad for the chances we miss.I had regret of missed chances deep in my heart there is no way to go back and try it.




    

A Good to one is Bad to Another

Yesterday it rained here at pune. It was really a pleasant weather for us. it rained for almost an hour with full force as if there was little Storm. I  really enjoyed the rain because it was a pleasant surprise after the hot day. I went outside the room on our tarriest to enjoy , wind was blowing  with its full force.  Cold wind and rain  touching my body  was taking  my whole stress away. I wished weather remains that way forever. I enjoyed hot tea and snacks on our tarriest seeing clouds , birds and sun after rain.So it was good end for my weekend. I slept as if some thing very good had happened to me.

I went to office next morning with  my empty stomach and rushed to "Tapri"[temporary shops outside office], to have breakfast.I saw they were arranging there shops which were destroyed by the Storm. Some shops were not ready to server people because there temporary shades were taken away  and some were trying to build there shops again. I think it will take a day for them to build it again they will have some loss for sure. And it will take some time to make it perfect.It was a bad weather for them.

So the weather which was good for me is not good for them. There is good and bad for everything in this world, it is your luck where do you stand on the bad side or on the good side

 

War of programming languages

I found it on quora and it is by far the best compariosn of programming language.

Read Quote of Prithviraj Udaya's answer to Programming Languages: What if there were a war of programming languages who would you support and why? on Quora

The most used Pickup and breakup lines

Preity Zinta is superstar of Bollywood  and she is great actress and i am big fan of her . I follow her on twitter , she constantly chat with her fans on twitter . Tomorrow on Sunday she gives her fans a topic breakuplines and pickupline for chat , following what we got in reply a really entertaining session .   Twitter is great we can directly talk to our models .

 

Truth of Life : A way to live life , be blessed and cherished

Today i got a SMS and it was a poem , many poem come to my inbox but this one really touched my heart so i am writing this poem on blog .

I've seen castles made made out of sand ,

meet people who believe destiny engraved on the palms of there hand !

I've seen people change there faith ,

experienced love change into hate !

I've seen people grow younger with age ,

and a bird who wouldn't fly out of open age !

I've seen love sold for money ,

people who are devastated inside but outside they are funny !

I've seen the unicorn fall in the love with the toad ,

people who owned half the city now hit the road !

I've learned to expect the unexpected , 

perfection does't exist we all are defected !

Everyone cries some just hide there tears ,

they said coal turns into diamond over thousand years !

Some one believe u are 1 in million , 

for other's you are just nobody in the billion !

So love life with all that you have ,

cherish all your moments whether happy or sad ,

Fell blessed with what you are ... because life is too short we can't go so far !

last line is the best we cant go so far!!! so true .