What I have learned about life.

I have completed 25 years on this earth. For many years I didn't care to know about life and i was content , but within  last few years i have started finding meaning of life.Life is like Roller Coaster drive with lots of ups and downs. Following are some points that i have figured out about life  through reading books , listening to people and through my personal experience.

• When some one sees the same people every day, they wind up becoming part in that persons life. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. 
  This is a ugly truth, ever body do this, we want to change the people whom we love. We want them to behave according to our need. 
• True friends will never question why you disappeared off the face of the earth. They will be there for you unconditionally.
  True friends will always help you first, and then will ask you about your trouble.I am glad to have such friends.
• Life is not easy. But having the right support group with you during your journey goes  a long, long way.
  If you have good friends and family whatever happen, you will always enjoy the life.
• People aren't either wicked or noble. they're  like chefs salad, with good things and bad things chopped and mixed together in a vinaigrette  of confusion and conflict.No one is perfect every person has some good and bad and when you love a person you have to accept both.
• Not every relationship is meant to last forever.
  People will come and go from your life.It is on you how fast you recover and move on.
• Know what you want. Clarity is power.Most people don't know what they want , they live life without goal just to survive. 
• Remember  that the moment you think you are master you loose your mastery.
  If you think you have learnt everything and you are master then you lying to yourself .
• Every time you do what scares you, you take back the power that you gave to the thing that scared you. And so you become more powerful.
  Pick up a thing that fears you , do it right now and after doing it you will feel more powerful.
• The more you give the more you receive 
• This is good sign, having a broken heart. it means we have tired for some thing.
  If you always live in your comfort zone you will be happy forever and you will never know what more you can do .Get out of your comfort zone broke your heart and find new limits for yourself.
• Rest. recover. it will make you stronger.
  You can not win every time.sometime you lose your everything including you confidence, at that time take a break with your coffee and figure out your mistake.
• A heart never heals, but it does got stronger.
• Happiness is trip,not destination.
  You will not find any place or thing which will make you happy forever.
• The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself.
  Sleep good , laugh good and eat good worry less about your future problems.work on present to make you future better. 
• The darkest hour of the night came just before the dawn.
  Don't give up on toughest time a little more effort at toughest time will lead you to victory. 
• Life is under no obligation to give us what we except.

A day at Kolayat (same as it was at ramlila maidan )

Two days ago i was at bikaner and i was there to brought my 8th semester  mark sheet . From there i want to kolayat ( a holy palce near bikaner ) with my friend safal soni actually it was his plan ,to go out of station and enjoy the  holy mela .  

So we went to the place with  our camera (we don't go anywhere without it )  , kolayat is a very  small  place  with few  shops  and lots of dharamshalas . There was a big holy pond and people were really eager to take a bath there though water was really dirty . This is the most amazing thing in india they come to god or holy places nothing is dirty everything is fine , i thing people become in love of god .  

And another amazing thing i saw there was people were traveling to RAMDEVRA ( again a holy palce ) , believe me they were not traveling by buses or trains they were on their foots . 180 km Journey by foot this is simply amazing . They have pain they have wounds they are hurting but still they were traveling to there destiny the RAMDEVRA . 

Now i started thinking that what is the reason that they are doing this why will happen if they went to RAMDEVRA instead  of train and buses . After thing the whole day and after some Q/A with my   friend i got the answer people do this because  they "Belief " .

They Believe that something good going to happen , they Believe that there problem are going to be solved , they Believe that this is there duty to do this , they don't know what is going to happen but they Believe something is going to happen . The felling was in me when i went to the movment   of Anna Hazare i  have a Believe that something good is going to happen , i believe that my problems are going to be end and i believe that it is my duty to go there . I did't know what is going to happen and when it is going to happen but i believed .  

So what i thought the two places that i visited  the cause were different [ Ramlila maidan delhi and Kolyat ] the reason were different but the common thing was "Believe"   . In anna hazare movement people believed in the myth" Bharat mata"  and at Kolayat people believed in the existence of "God" . 

So i have learned that "Belief " what make us so strong to forgot our pain and move towards the destiny  ,to the  goal to the  difficult victory . That reminds me the Dialogue by oracle in movie matrix  "I don't know the future but i believed that Neo is going to do that ".