What I have learned about life.

I have completed 25 years on this earth. For many years I didn't care to know about life and i was content , but within  last few years i have started finding meaning of life.Life is like Roller Coaster drive with lots of ups and downs. Following are some points that i have figured out about life  through reading books , listening to people and through my personal experience.

• When some one sees the same people every day, they wind up becoming part in that persons life. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. 
  This is a ugly truth, ever body do this, we want to change the people whom we love. We want them to behave according to our need. 
• True friends will never question why you disappeared off the face of the earth. They will be there for you unconditionally.
  True friends will always help you first, and then will ask you about your trouble.I am glad to have such friends.
• Life is not easy. But having the right support group with you during your journey goes  a long, long way.
  If you have good friends and family whatever happen, you will always enjoy the life.
• People aren't either wicked or noble. they're  like chefs salad, with good things and bad things chopped and mixed together in a vinaigrette  of confusion and conflict.No one is perfect every person has some good and bad and when you love a person you have to accept both.
• Not every relationship is meant to last forever.
  People will come and go from your life.It is on you how fast you recover and move on.
• Know what you want. Clarity is power.Most people don't know what they want , they live life without goal just to survive. 
• Remember  that the moment you think you are master you loose your mastery.
  If you think you have learnt everything and you are master then you lying to yourself .
• Every time you do what scares you, you take back the power that you gave to the thing that scared you. And so you become more powerful.
  Pick up a thing that fears you , do it right now and after doing it you will feel more powerful.
• The more you give the more you receive 
• This is good sign, having a broken heart. it means we have tired for some thing.
  If you always live in your comfort zone you will be happy forever and you will never know what more you can do .Get out of your comfort zone broke your heart and find new limits for yourself.
• Rest. recover. it will make you stronger.
  You can not win every time.sometime you lose your everything including you confidence, at that time take a break with your coffee and figure out your mistake.
• A heart never heals, but it does got stronger.
• Happiness is trip,not destination.
  You will not find any place or thing which will make you happy forever.
• The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself.
  Sleep good , laugh good and eat good worry less about your future problems.work on present to make you future better. 
• The darkest hour of the night came just before the dawn.
  Don't give up on toughest time a little more effort at toughest time will lead you to victory. 
• Life is under no obligation to give us what we except.